Getting married...Marriage, Shaadi...I always used to get uber excited even with the thought of getting married and becoming a bride...you know this whole thing about marriage....Shopping, parlor visits, honey moon and stuff....It used to make me jump with the joy!!! But now..when i know i will be getting married within a year or so...am not quite liking the feeling..No its not that am not excited or happy..its just that now am scared!! Now when i know that i would no more be the pampered daughter of my Dad..who has a bunch of teddy bears in her room..and who dresses her teddies everyday...;) (Yes i love all my teddies to that extent), now i can't fight with my mother on cooking Tinda, Ghiiya and Tori.., now i would not be able to sleep till 12 Noon on Sundays., and there are so many other things which i would have to leave behind.
From past 2 months now, my Dad gives me one hour lecture everyday, explaining me the duties of a wife and a daughter in law...Am extremely thankful to him, but then why do i have to change myself?...Why can't I be the same Harleen after getting married?? I understand that my duties and responsibilities will increase but why I must stop laughing loudly??( My Dad doesn't likes it when i laugh loudly) ... :(
In some time I would have to leave my home, I would have to vacant my room...OUCH!!!! (the feeling hurts)...Will i be able to adjust in a new place?? Will my in laws like me? Will my fiance's bhua's daughter's son like me?? There are so many apprehensions surrounding me...Getting Married is not just about getting married to the person you love..its also about getting married to a new family altogether...there would be so many expectations...Will I be able to deliver??
Am scared!!
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well,first of all,i can perfectly identify myself wid the blog !!thou' my case is a bit different from urs ,n thats coz i m a guy!!but obviously,u being a gal who has to start anew in a totally new place with totally new ppl,have to think a lot !!!
ReplyDeletewhat i think is that u dont really have to change urself but u do have to adjust acording to whatever the circumstances r..n that adjustment should not only be form ur side but from ur inlaws too!!everything matters on ur spouse,if he is there for u,u dont have to worry about anything!!!
i have so much plans in my head for the time when i get married n when a new girl leaves everything behind her to start afresh with me!!!i hope i can give her all the happiness in the world and keep her happy!!!
best of luck to u for the time ahead!!:D:D
ooo chinta ni kar kudiye
ReplyDelete.. jitthe pyar honda hai utthe sab theek haunda ... and Yes you will be able to deliver...and get praises from both the families. And i am sure ki ur in laws will adore u a lot ...Marriage is not only the relationship between two people but it is also a relationship between two families. And one thing more u need to give priority to yours and your spouse’s opinions. And Only by showing their (ur in law's) importance in your life as well as respect towards them will make win their heart easily.
So just chill..khaao pio ghuumo firro aish karo ...jad shaadi hovegi ta vekh li.. k ...
Mohit Dhawan
@Trifler Thanks :) and yes getting married is as tough for a man as for a woman...so all the very best to you too..
ReplyDeletethe expert aka blog is inspired from chetan bhagat 2 states abt marriage of 2 families.. but its fun always.. keep reading my blog as well
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